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Taryn asked:

Occasion: Father's Day
I am looking for a unique way to celebrate father's day. Make it kind of special. There are garden parties for Mother's day, etc. but can't find many ideas for father's day

The Party Girl's advice is:

Think about what your Dad likes like fishing or other sports, books, travel, etc. You could build a theme around one of these. Check out party411.com/themes for other ideas. Also look at the new products part of the home page. You might want to do an edible photo, buttons, etc.


Nancy asked:

Occasion: synagogue social event
I had once read an interesting funny poem about the seating arrangements at these types of things, requesting forgiveness if you are not seated with your friends. Do you know of this? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

I don't know this particular poem. You might do a random search on the web, starting with poetry and dig from there. Or you could ask your local librarian to help. Or you could write your own which may sound hard but would be fun once you got started. The secret is to know how you want to end it and work from there.


Shawn Stamper asked:

Occasion: A Summer Party
I'm planning a summer party and would like all the info you have on a retro dance party. such as ideas for costumes and games I have the decor down but a few suggestions would help. Thanks a lot. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

I'm not sure what retro really is. It seems that different people have different ideas. I would simply pick a decade and learn about it. Then you could pick the dress and write back for suggestions.


Terri Kaupp asked:

Occasion: Parent's 40th Anniversary
My brother, sister and I are planning a anniversary party for my parents at a friend of the family's house. I have already started to work on a scrapbook for my parents present. I would like to give the couple hosting the party a gift for letting us use their home - any suggestions?   Also, the party will be held outside in the evening - I am already planning on having Citronella candles on the tables and the perimeter and white lights in the bushes to give it some atmosphere - any other suggestions on how to decorate for an outdoors evening party? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all, a handwritten letter of thanks is always the best way to start. You might want to take secret pictures of the host couple along with photos of the evening and put them in an album. Put the thank you letter there too. Give them this along with either a gift certificate for dinner at a good restaurant.


jenny blake asked:

Occasion: kick off to summer
hi. We are planning a beach party where the theme is Grease. There will be about 20 7 and 8 year old girls and boys. Any ideas for invites, games, decorations, or clever serving ideas? Thanks, Jenny 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Look at the new Products area on the home page. You might want to do the buttons, charades, or the edible photo. Also inquire for help in the other areas. We can do all those things in your theme.


Nancy asked:

Occasion: year end property
I am starting late for ideas for a end of school ice cream party. I love this site and will bookmark for future use. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Maybe using school colors, get ice cream in those colors and set up a do-it-yourself ice cream bar with sprinkles, etc. Have glitter, balloons, streamers, noisemakers.


Kim Newman asked:

Occasion: family picnic
do you have any good ideas on homemade or very inexpensive 50's table decorations. We are having a contest.

The Party Girl's advice is:

See if you can find some old 45's (records, ask your parents.) Use these along with cutouts of Jukeboxes, and glitter and balloons. Think Happy Days for stuff.


Stephanie asked:

Occasion: end of school pool party
I need help I have no clue how to make this the best party ever! You have to give me some advice. What games should we play? How should I decorate it? HELP party girl!!!! 

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all check the party411.com/themes and party411.com/gameguide sites and especially under bar/bat mitzvah for themes and ideas. For inexpensive stuff, look at your local dollar stores. Since you have use of a pool, have water volleyball, toss the water balloon, etc.


"Kerry" asked:

Occasion: barbecue theme
Hi Every other year my husband and I throw a huge b-b-q for all our friends and family. This year we are going to try and do a pig roast, I rent a hot dog cart and cotton candy machine. We usually have baked beans, meatballs, sausage and peppers and other things usually brought by the guests. We don't know what kind of theme to do - usually what I do is coordinate everything - the first year everything was very floral, the second time we had a flag with snoopy barbecuing so the invites matched and we did the checkered table clothes and so on. This year we might have cups and t-shirts made -  Can you help come up with an idea - I would like the cups & tees to match my invites and so on. 3 ideas we have come up with is: 1. Mardi Gras theme 2. Luau 3. New Year's Eve theme  I like the luau theme b/c we have the pig - but I think everyone does it - I like to be different. The Mardi Gras theme seemed fun - my sister lives in New Orleans and we can get the beads and masks - but would it be stupid with a pig - hot dog cart and cotton candy machine. The New Year's Eve one was ok - being the last big bbq at our house in 99 - but when do you do the toast?  Do you like any of these? Do you have any suggestions other than these? or do you have suggestions to work with these?  Thank you Kerry    P.S. our b-b-q is July 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Check party411.com/themes and look for beach/Hawaiian, etc. Lots of ideas. Also check out the new products area for cute stuff. As for matching, check www.oriental.com. They carry lots of theme stuff that coordinates. Play lots of beach boys, carve out watermelons and fill with fruit, include fruit kabobs both cold and for the grill, have paper umbrellas for the drinks (include some sort of punch), do the limbo and play toss the water balloons. Get paper leis and hula skirts (for the guys also). Have fun.


theresa young asked:

Occasion: friends over
I would just love to have some new ideas to keep people having fun or new ideas on how to design a party theme 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Check out party411.com/themes and party411.com/gameguide for some ideas. Also, look at the new products on the main page.


Joanna Anderson asked:

Occasion: Party411 Party Girl Advice
all you did was send me to your page, I have already looked at it and I saw that you could answer my question, so...........please give me some advice!

The Party Girl's advice is:

Send the question and I will respond directly.


Ashlee asked:

Occasion: going away party
Dear Party Girl, I need your help! My name is Ashlee and I am 13 years old. I'm in charge of throwing a surprise going away party for my best friend and I'm out of ideas. I know it's going to be a pool party. We won't be serving food, just snacks. I'm also on a limited budge, around $200+. Please help!!!!  Thanks a bundle! -Ashlee 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Look at party411.com/themes at beach party/Hawaiian for ideas. Play water volleyball and have races. Do the limbo (ask your mom) and have a water balloon toss. Get a picture of the guest of honor and blow it up and mount it. Have all the guests sign in. Ask the guests to bring pictures of themselves and to write a message on the back and put these in an album.


Vera asked:

Occasion: Just a plain party, no occasion
= Hi, I am 15 years old and my sister and I decided to throw our first party. It's no special occasion, just to have some fun while school is out. However, since the party room costs $170, I'm having tough time deciding on kind of food and theme/decorations I want to have, since tight budget is a problem. Do you have any ideas? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Have an indoor pool party. Have the guests dress in pool clothes and get blowup stuff like rings, rafts, etc. Get a plastic pool and fill it with some water and have a boat race. Look at party411.com/themes at beach/Hawaiian stuff for more ideas. Serve burgers, dogs, chips, snow cones, popsicles, punch, fruit etc. For inexpensive decorations, check the dollar stores or www.oriental.com.


shaimful asked:

Occasion: A girls night out
I have a girls night out once a year. This is my 8th year and needless to say I've run out of ideas on invitations. Just wondered if you had any ideas. My husband goes fishing every year and that's when I have it. I invite about 100 girls and its a blast. Themes in the past have included Elvis, Barbie, garden party, beach party, a luau. I'm lost and would appreciate any help. Thanks. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Would you like to do a take-off on a fishing theme? I have lots of stuff you can use to make fun of the whole "fishin" thing. Let me know and we can talk further. If not, write back and we'll come up with something else.


diana apple asked:

Occasion: millennium picnic party
help! I am having a hard time finding any info about millennium parties i.e. invitations, decorations, music etc. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Keep checking party411.com. We just posted a millennium site and will continue to add to it. Also, for some goods, check www.oriental.com.


Nicole asked:

Occasion: Get acquainted
I am trying to plan a party for a bunch of girls and I was wondering if you could sort of help me/ or give me a layout of a sleep over party for little girls.  Thanks, Nicole

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all, check party411.com/themes under bat mitzvah and children's parties. Also, check party411.gameguide for some ideas. Plan to make something in the kitchen like chocolate chip cookies. Nothing better than raw dough and the smell of freshly baked cookies. Turn off the lights and use flashlights and tell ghost stories. Use the family room with a TV, sleeping bags, videos, popcorn and soft drinks.


Robert Howze asked:

Occasion: Ice Breakers
I need an ice-breaker for a Christian Women's Retreat. I need something to get the ladies involved and also create situations that requiring "getting to know one another". Please help--the Retreat is this weekend: May 28-30,1999.

The Party Girl's advice is:

Sorry I got this too late to help you - hope you had a good retreat, write again but sooner, with any other questions.


claire asked:

Occasion: rehearsal party
I am looking for some creative and unique ideas for table tops and arrangements. The table cloths are red and white plaid. Any ideas are appreciated!

The Party Girl's advice is:

Find a picture of a bride and groom and put the couples pictures in the faces. Blow a bunch of these up to about 18-24 inches tall and mount on foam core. Glue to a flat piece of foam and decorate around with balloons, streamers, glitter, etc. Go to the dollar store or look at www.oriental.com for other stuff to use at the base. You could put the couple on a cake. There's lots of ideas but don't make it so big that the people can't talk to each other.


ang asked:

Occasion: bachelorette party
Help what Can we do for entertainment at this affair?? I need some ideas for games and jokes or anything funny. Any ideas??? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Check out party411.com/gameguide for some ideas. Blow up a picture of her fiancée and mount it on a board. Duplicate body parts on papers (pick the ones you want) and play a version of pin-the-tail. Truth or Dare is always good, especially at an all-girl party. Go to one of "those" stores and get gag gifts i.e. edible underwear, etc.


Donna asked:

Occasion: combo party
I'm having a 3 year old girl party and our wedding anniversary party all in one think that you could help I have a large back yard and recently put up a swing set (still in the process) a large wooden one it will be done by the time I have the party. thought perhaps a back yard garden or barnyard help need ideas that will work for all  thank you Donna 

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all, decide whether you want the theme to appeal to kids or adults. Then check party411.com/themes for some ideas. I would get 2 cakes and find a bakery with a scanner and have pictures of the honorees put on the top of the cakes. Remember, balloons and bubbles go great for everything and if you have the yard, use it. But, remember, it may rain or something so have a Plan B.


Melissa Danner asked:

Occasion: Father's Day
Please give me some ideas on food for our luau that would help lend some atmosphere to the party. We are planning to use watermelon and pineapple boats for serving, but could use some other suggestions. Thanks! 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Due to your budget this will be challenging. If you have grills available, create kabobs using veggies and chicken or pork. Marinate them and then grill them. Either buy or make your own banana chips and use macadamia nuts. You can also serve different varieties of rice. Make a fruit punch and instead of ice cubes, freeze some punch ahead in a ring mold or other gelatin mold. That way, when it melts, it won't dilute the punch. For other suggestions, check party411.com/themes.


ALL OUT IN ALBUQUERQUE asked:

Occasion: RETRO PARTY
I AM HAVING A RETRO PARTY, AND I CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING TO DO FOR ENTERTAINMENT. I THOUGHT ABOUT RETRO TWISTER, AND CHARADES AND STUFF, BUT I DON'T WANT MY GUESTS TO GET BORED WITH THE GAMES AND STUFF. CAN YOU SEND ME SOME IDEAS?   ALL OUT IN ALBUQUERQUE 

The Party Girl's advice is:

I know, at your age things can be really boring. Check out party411.com/gameguide for some possibilities.


Wendy asked:

Occasion: school quiz night
Our table of 12 needs a theme costume. Past ideas are  - Cinderella with girls in ball gowns  and some men as the ugly step-  sisters  - Back to school - everyone in uniform  - Star wars  - Princess Leia; C3P0; Chewbacca  etc   Help me please 

The Party Girl's advice is:

You could do a backwards table where everyone wears their clothes backwards, turns their chairs backwards, eats in reverse order, etc. You could be Teletubbies in all the colors, You could all be dressed as preschoolers in short pants and dresses and ribbons in hair with pacifiers etc.


Doreen Urtuzuastegui asked:

Occasion: baptism
I need some original and creative ideas for decorations and activities at the reception (besides eating, drinking and dancing). About 50 people will attend and will represent all age groups. Thanks! 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Did you check party411.com/themes for ideas of themes and party411.com/gameguide for activities?


Sherri asked:

Occasion: Romantic Tropical night
Because this weekend is Memorial day, and my boyfriend and I both wanted to go away and we can't, and we both want to go somewhere tropical, I decided I wanted to bring the tropics to us. I want a fun tropical evening with a romantic twist as well. I have already bought a few things but any ideas would help. Thanks

The Party Girl's advice is:

I assume this is an evening for two. Paste stars on the ceiling, also the moon. Drape light blue chiffon scarves over the lamps. Set the table for two and don't have a "usual dinner". Have pina coladas or another tropical drink. Wear bathing suits or flowered shirts, leis, grass skirts, etc. Think fruit kabobs, banana chips, and some dish with pineapple like sweet and sour chicken. Have island music playing and turn on a blowing fan. Borrow a small plastic pool and fill with sand to play or even some water. Use your imagination.


John asked:

Occasion: fun party
I went to a party a at a friends home few years ago where the kitchen was "off limits" and each guest was given a menu of choices for the evening. Included on this menu, (but unknown to the guest) were in addition to the food choices, were the eating utensils. All of the menu items were in a encrypted form: A devil's favorite - A Fork High-temperature polo - Backed chicken  That is about all I can remember and my question is have you ever heard of such a PARTY? I would like to do it with my friends. Thank you in advance  John

The Party Girl's advice is:

Sorry, I have never heard of this. See what you can remember or try to remember who had it.


Karen Ifield asked:

Occasion: Salsa/Latino Themes party
Hello  I would just like some information on typical Latino themes for parties such as decorations etc..  Many Thanks   Alpha Credit Bank

The Party Girl's advice is:

Check party411.com/themes for suggestions. A good place to get decorations is www.oriental.com.


glenelle cutrufo asked:

Occasion: going away for summer party for 16 year old girl
need lots of games that this age group will think are fun to play. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Try the site www.party411.com/gameguide for ideas. Also, ask the kids themselves. Since you have a pool available, water volleyball and races are a natural. Also a tug of war across the pool. Have a limbo contest and play pass-the-orange. Go to the dollar store and get bubbles for everyone. You're never too old for bubbles.


"John F. Malachowski" asked:

Occasion: Restaurant Menu Party
Hi, A few years ago I went to a party at a friend's home where the kitchen was "off-limits" and each guest was given a "menu" to pick what they wanted. However, contained within this "menu" was the cups, plates, silverware, etc. including the food. If you didn't "order" the silverware and plates, etc at first, you got to eat the food you ordered without the utensils. or if you ordered the food first without the utensils, you had to eat the food again without plates. The food and the utensils were encrypted as to what they really were: The fork was "A devil's tool" Drinks were "in the mood"  That is all that I can remember and I was wondering if you ever heard of such a crazy party?   Thanks in advance  John Malachowski

The Party Girl's advice is:

I haven't heard of this before, but then, there are lots of things that are news to me. I would imagine that you could take your memories of this and fill in the blanks.


DANIELLE asked:

Occasion: SUMMER PARTY
SO FAR WE THOUGHT OF DREAD LOCK WIGS, JIMMY BUFFET & STEEL DRUM MUSIC. FISH NETS EVERYWHERE. WHAT ELSE? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Lots of cocoanuts, hollow them out and use as cups and put candles in them to light. And drums, lots of different decorated drums. And voodoo dolls. Check out www.oriental.com for some possibles. Serve margaritas as you play Buffet. Wear colorful shirts and ragged shorts. Do the limbo. Put fake fish in the nets. And be sure to say "Mon" all the time.


rebecca asked:

Occasion: sweet sixteen
what do you do in the church? Do I enter in last with my dama's? When do I dance with my dad? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

You could probably decorate the church with flowers but check with your pastor. You lead off the first dance with your dad. I don't know what a dama is.


TAMI asked:

Occasion: LUAU PARTY FOR 2 GIRLS
I NEED SOME GAME IDEAS AND MORE DECORATING IDEAS FOR A PARTY FOR TWO GIRLS AGE 3 AND 11. THE THEME IS LUAU. I AM ALSO TRYING TO INCLUDE THE POOL IN OUR BACKYARD FOR GAMES, ETC.  

The Party Girl's advice is:

Check out party411.com/gameguide for game ideas and /themes for decorating ideas. I hope your are making pineapple and watermelon boats to serve in. Check www.oriental.com for some great luau decorations.


Lindsay asked:

Occasion: toga party for senior skip day
we all want to wear togas but have no idea how to make them any suggestions 

The Party Girl's advice is:

For the gals, if you are short enough, take a pillow case and cut a hole for your head and one for each arm. Use decorative rope (see your fabric store) to tie at shoulders and to make a belt. Maybe some for your hair. For the guys and gals too large for pillow case, tying a sheet can be tricky. Don't rely on knots, use lots of safety pins. Remember, you can use the single or double shoulder approach. Have someone drape and pin you and then you do them.


Chrisy asked:

Occasion: end of school
How could I plan a party for the end of the school year/ year 2000 party? 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Well, since we don't know what will be different in the year 2000, you're free to make up anything you want to. You could go very futuristic (like the Jetsons) or use Star Wars, etc.. Check out party411.com/themes for some ideas.


Cheryl Glandon asked:

Occasion: Going away party
What's a good theme or idea for a going away party. 

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all, gather photos for each family and have guests write down stories or memories, and put them in an album for each one to keep. Buy disposable cameras and take pics at the party and give them to the one leaving. Check party411.com/themes for some ideas. for party stuff, if there isn't a place near you for things, check www.oriental.com.


Valerie asked:

Occasion: exchange student going home
Our exchange student is going home and we want to throw a party for him. Please help, we want to swim, cookout, and/or campout. It might be too cold to swim so what do we do? We need party ideas and a theme. HELP ASAP!! thanks, Valerie & Tiffany 

The Party Girl's advice is:

First of all, why not call the party "Memories". Gather pictures of him and his stay and put them in an album along with stories and memories. Have everyone write something. He'll keep that forever. Check out party411.com/themes for some ideas. Also party411.comgameguide.


jenny blake asked:

Occasion: silent auction fundraiser
I was wondering if you had any great themes for a silent auction that will be held mid November? thanks, your help is appreciated. jenny Blake 

The Party Girl's advice is:

Try www.p;arty411.themes for some ideas. Take into consideration the following: time of the year, what's hot, the charity it's going to, are you honoring anyone, comical or serious.


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